A Love Letter to My Future Lover

Recognizing the Love you have to Give

Last time I focused on the JEMM, "Preparing for Power Partnership", I discussed the importance of acknowledging our own red flags and those that we tend to attract, in order to improve the next relationship that we enter into. In order to correct a couple of my own red flags, I wanted to stick to a strict schedule and heal my mind and body - but alas, I couldn't fully commit.

I know I still have these red flags, and I'm not in a position to be in the type of relationship that I am aiming for. But this week, instead of focusing on what I need to fix (which I always am), I want to take a moment to recognize my strengths and what I bring to a relationship—because self-awareness isn’t just about identifying flaws; it’s about owning our value, too.

What I eventually want to teach young people is the power of their intimacy—the power of their attention. We often underestimate how valuable our energy is, how the people and experiences we invest in shape our lives. Yet, so many people search for partners, whether romantic or sexual, without first doing the work to become the kind of partner they desire.

Are they genuinely kind—to themselves and to those who have nothing to offer them in return? Do they have real passions that ignite their soul, pursuits that fulfill them beyond external validation? Are they in a place where they can fully love someone, or are they still harbouring feelings for another? Do they truly know themselves, and more importantly, do they love what they find? Are they nourishing their mind, body, and spirit, not just for aesthetics but for longevity, vitality, and inner peace?

Because intimacy isn’t just about physical closeness—it’s about the energy exchange between two people. And when we approach it unconsciously, without self-awareness, we risk losing parts of ourselves in others instead of building something meaningful together.

Below is a love letter to my future lover and partner—a reflection of what I desire, a vision that may inspire others in their own search for meaningful connection. This letter is a reflection of the love and connection I aim to cultivate, and a reminder of the lessons learned along the way. It’s a vision for the future, grounded in a deep sense of self-awareness and mutual respect.

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My Love,

I don’t know your name yet, but I know your energy. I’ve felt you in the quiet moments of solitude, in the fire of my ambition, in the spaces between my dreams. You are not just a partner—you are a force, a mirror, a reflection of the love and strength I’ve cultivated within myself.

I’ve spent years unraveling, rebuilding, and refining the woman I am, not just for you, but for me. Because I know that the love we are meant to share can only thrive when we both stand fully in our power. And so, I have prepared. I have learned to hold myself, to dance with both the light and the shadow, to find beauty in stillness and ecstasy in movement. I have built a life rich in passion, purpose, and presence—so that when you arrive, I will not ask you to complete me, but to walk beside me.

Wherever you are right now, I hope you are doing the same—loving yourself deeply, chasing what sets your soul on fire, and preparing to meet me as the fullest version of yourself. Because when we do finally find each other, we will not be two halves searching for wholeness. We will be two whole beings, choosing to build something extraordinary together.

What am I looking forward to the most with you?

I'm looking forward to seeing the best in you, letting the joy of your existence fill my spirit, and telling the world how incredible you are—your dreams, your passion, your dedication. Because when those dreams come to life, the world will be a much brighter and more beautiful place. And I want to help you build these dreams to make it manifest in this reality.

I'm looking forward to building a home with you, infusing our energy in the space that cradles and nurtures us, while we build our family, whatever that looks like. Every being showered with our love will be an immense blessing on this planet, beings full of love and care for this world around them.

I'm looking forward to being there for every victory, every breakthrough, and every tear, reminding you that no matter what life throws at you, I will always be by your side.

I'm looking forward to finding out what your favourite dishes are, and learning how to cook them better every time, surprising you on days when you need a pick-me-up. I want to nourish you, mind, body and spirit.

I'm looking forward to telling everyone I meet how good of a man you are, how much you care about those around you, how kind you are, about how you make me laugh, and how safe and loved you make me feel.

I'm looking forward to training with you, and getting stronger together with each day.

I'm looking forward to all the wrestle matches, tickle fights, laughing fits, pajama parties, movie marathons, cook-offs, game nights, and dance sessions. Oh there will be dance.

I'm looking forward to dancing with you as much as possible, and seeing how our bodies respond to each other each day. To see the stories that arise from our movements, to see how the collision of our bodies and our energy awakens the ancient wisdom in our DNA, to amplify our primal insticts so that we can stand more confidently within our own bodies, and understand each other and ourselves better than ever.

I'm looking forward to where the music takes us as we move - how deep, how close, how silly, how on-point, how emotional, how primal, how explosive, how connected, how orgasmic, how cosmically expressive we can be.... Of course when I say "dance", I'm also referring to "knockin' boots"😋😏

I'm so looking forward to massaging you—to let my hands read your body like braille, discovering where tension lingers so I can release it, transmute it, and expand our energy. Because when I touch you, it’s not work—it’s creation, it’s flow, it’s energy in motion. It's energy generation. Our sexual healing heals the planet tenfold.

I want to remind you that you are the King of our home and of my world, especially during those times when you may not feel like it, or during times when the world feels the most cold and hopeless. Those are the times I hope I can to rise to the occasion to mirror back the strength I see in you.

I want to go to events with you, where we can dance together, and then go off on our own, make friends along the way, and come back together, stronger than ever... with new friends by our sides. And maybe host the after-party 😉

I want to travel the world with you, to see the magic that this big world has to offer, while feeling safe in each other's care. I want our love to touch the hearts of those around the world, and see how we can help those we meet. Together we can build bridges.

I know that finding each other is both a privilege and a blessing—one that we’ve earned through the work we’ve done to grow, heal, and become the kind of people who can truly uplift and inspire one another. Our love is not just a gift, but a reflection of our dedication to becoming the best versions of ourselves, so that when we finally met, we could be a force of light in each other’s lives.

And so, my love, wherever you are in this moment, know that I am already holding space for you. I am already celebrating you, cheering you on, and sending you my love in ways that transcend time and distance. I trust that life will bring us together when the moment is right—when we are both ready to create, to build, to love, and to elevate each other in ways we’ve only dreamed of.

Until then, I will keep growing, keep loving, and keep preparing my heart, mind, and soul to meet you in the fullest expression of who we are meant to be together.

I can’t wait to dance with you, to laugh with you, to dream with you, and to love you in all the ways that you deserve.

I’ll see you soon, my love, when the time is right.

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This is the standard of love I am holding out for—the kind of partnership that feels like home, like inspiration, like an unstoppable force for good in the world. Whether this love finds me in this lifetime or the next, I trust in divine timing. And while my life isn’t as full as I want it to be yet (which is probably why I haven't connected with this lover) I am committed to creating the life I aspire to build—surrounding myself with the right people, nurturing meaningful connections, and building something that feels whole and like home. Because whether or not this person arrives, I will be okay. And not just okay—I will thrive surrounded by a supportive community.